Masterbatrix or Cock Controller

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A masturbatrix, or cock controller, is a woman who enjoys instructing a man’s masturbation. She may or may not be into orgasm denial as well. She enjoys the experience of controlling a man’s cock, masturbation, and orgasms.

Observing another person masturbating has always been an erotic experience for many people, both those involved in the femdom world, and others.

A Masturbatrix, as the term is typically used, is usually interested in some element of femdom activities such as:

  • Chastity training
  • Teasing and denial
  • Orgasm denial
  • Cock control
  • Feminization
  • Sissification

Does she have to be cruel and aggressive?

A Masturbatrix does not necessarily have to possess the traits usually associated with those involved in femdom, such as strict, stern, cruel and punishing – many Masturbatrices consider themselves to be sensual, gentle and willing to use all of their feminine wiles to arouse and control their stroke pets.

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Even if you don’t consider yourself to be submissive, and if you definitely are not interested in orgasm denial, you can still enjoy the pleasure of experiencing a session with a Masturbatrix.

Have you ever masturbated for a lover? Perhaps engaged in a mutual masturbation session?

It’s very hot! Add to that the element of your partner instructing you how to stroke, what she’d like to see you doing…it gets even hotter.

Why am I a Masturbatrix

I can’t tell you exactly how or why I developed a male masturbation fetish. But ever since I started having sexual fantasies, most of my fantasies involved male masturbation, and in particular, watching a man masturbate, and telling him what I want to see him do. As I learned that I have a strong dominant side and the new needs that come with it, the combination of this trait and my male masturbation fetish logically led me to identify with the term “Masturbatrix” Though I consider myself to be many other things in addition to Masturbatrix, this is probably one of the top three labels I’d affix to myself (if I had to label at all.)

Using Teasing and Denial To Learn Orgasm Control improve Your Sex Life

I find that younger orgasm denial trainees, usually in their early 20’s, comment on the difficulty they experience with orgasm self-denial, and even with their orgasm denial training.

Masturbation and Orgasm are interesting “events” to think about – while a period of sexual arousal can last for hours, we all seem to be aiming for that “Big O”, which lasts (usually) for mere seconds. Orgasm control attempts to prolong the period of arousal, while taking the onus off of the orgasm, and placing it on the enjoyment of the arousal and stimulation, which can be maintained for a much longer period of time.

Learn Orgasm Control: Your partner will thank you for it

If you improve your orgasm control abilities, you will become a much better sexual partner. The differences in sexual timing between men and women has been fodder for many jokes and comedic scenes in film and literature – men are stereotyped as seeking that quick orgasm without much foreplay, while women typically want a longer, more intimate encounter, with more foreplay.
If you practice orgasm control, your female partner will appreciate your endurance and your ability to enjoy the “foreplay” portion of an erotic encounter.
Sexual encounters can become almost tantric in nature if you learn to control your orgasms.
Being aroused feels great!
Use orgasm control to prolong your arousal:

Here’s my theory:

Sexual arousal feels great! Sure, an orgasm feels great too, but only for a few blissful moments, and then the fun is over. What if you could learn to control your orgasms, or even take the focus of the event off of the orgasm, and learn to enjoy the arousal for the immense pleasure it brings?

Orgasm control training will “reprogram” your sexual responses so that you can enjoy each moment of a sexual encounter – whether that’s alone or with a partner – rather than rushing through the arousal to get to the O.

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This is and has always been a complete turn on for me… to watch a man stoke his cock while I tell him what to do or how to do it … in a way that makes me crazy!

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