9 post orgasm torture ideas + 7 tips

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One of the great things about post orgasm torture is that it’s really harmless. As long as you’re not going to cause skin abrasions because everything is too dry, or use some kind of possibly very rough material, it absolutely can’t cause physical harm. It’s extremely intense but there is zero physical damage, it’s purely too much sensation. Now everyone will react differently from a psychological perspective, so make sure you and your sub communicate before, during, and after to see how he feels but physically he will be fine.

As for how long, that’s up to the two of you and however you’d like to set it up. Some guys lose sensitivity quickly, there are guys who aren’t bothered by POT at all, different techniques and locations might have different results, but that’s what experimentation is for. And again, as with most things in this realm, communication is key. Talk about it.

And now, to the ideas:

#1 Keep on rubbing

The common and well know way. Just keep on rubbing and stimulating the cock and especially the head

  • Make the guy cum by rubbing his penis between hands, as if they were a vagina fucking him from on top. When he cums, just keep going, in time to the continued spasms, making sure that each stroke brushes the ridge around the head, top, and bottom.

#2 Palming

“Palming” or “Knob Polishing” is the act of rubbing the head of the penis in circular motions using the lubricated palm of your hand.  Experiment with slow, fast, firm, light, tiny circles, wide circles, a supple wrist or a rigid wrist.

(Circle) Size Matters

For best technique, try with circles so small that it simply moves the head around without rubbing/sliding beneath your palm, and then slightly increase the size of the circle until you are rubbing as well.

Keep Him Off Balance

Constantly change the pressure, speed, etc.  He might respond better to a slower speed or a faster speed, but never settling on a constant speed adds finesse.

The Other Hand

Most people grab the base of the cock with the other hand, but the most effective way to stabilize the cock for this kind of technique is by making a snug ring with the thumb and forefinger, just below the head right where the soft part ends and the hard-on begins, just tight enough that it’s slightly difficult to pull it off and impossible push down onto the hard cock. It should probably touch the edge of the head all the way around, and definitely be between the head and the sweet spot.  By doing this, you can cup your polishing hand into a half-sphere shape, press it onto your other hand, and flatten your polishing hand just enough to make gentle but definite contact with the head.   This technique has many benefits:

  • No accidental touching of his shaft… if he thrusts, the thumb-forefinger ring is too small to slide down.
  • Using your holding hand as a guard, once you find the perfect amount of pressure you can keep it going indefinitely. Ever polish the knob and watch him spasm every few seconds as if from electrical shock? That’s because you’re getting it right only part of the time. This allows you to find the right technique and stretch those bursts of intensity into minutes.
  • The cock does not have to be hard for this technique.
  • The head is more sensitive when it’s slightly squeezed this way, and it’s more vulnerable… it plumps out a little and the slit is opened a little more
  • You can optionally press the third and fourth fingers of your guard hand into his sweet spot, either to edge him or because you plan to make him cum this way. (I don’t have much experience with this technique, but I’m pretty sure I can’t cum without this additional stimulation, and with this stimulation, the polishing makes it impossible for me to hold back.)
  • If you make him cum in this way, the partial obstruction caused by the tight ring will make his orgasm much stronger, the feeling of splashing against your palm will be out of this world, and the feeling of you polishing him while he’s cumming will redefine “intense.”
  • If you let him cum in this way, don’t stop. Cum makes a great lubricant. :twisted:

Force him to endure pain

  • #3 The best time to apply the harshest punishments is when they are administered after bringing a sub/slave to climax. Aside from the obvious obedience training benefits derived from this method, it also had a conditioning effect.
  • #4 After cumming, just put a bit of Icyhot on the head. Note that it is insanely intense. After a bit started to hurt quite a bit, well burn more than hurt. Word of caution as it may be too much for some.

Focus on the balls

  • #5 It does have everything to do with the balls getting punished, usually by caning, punching or by having the balls crushed if you have access to a ball crusher. Give him the choice of having to endure 5 or 10 hard cane strikes or the same amount of full-on punches. Either one fucking hurts and while it is a great turn on to anticipate and even better to look back on.

#6 Polishing the Apple – A Technique for Glans Torture

Polishing the Apple refers to over-stimulating the glans, the head of the penis, in such a way like you would polish an apple — Either using your palm to cover the entire glans and polish away or using something soft like silk. Pre- or Post- orgasm it is pure torture.

So here’s an interesting technique to limit stimulation to ONLY the glans.

It’s freakishly evil…

First, get the penis hard, but don’t use any lube yet… Once the penis is hard, you take a self-sticking bandage wrap or elastic athletic wrap (You want to use the kind that sticks to itself and does not require those metal things to hold it together)

Starting at the BASE of the penis, start wrapping, all the way to the top JUST under the head. Make sure EVERYTHING is covered in tape except for the VERY TIP of the penis. Wrap back down to the base, making a couple of passes (Don’t do it too tight)

NOW…. even when fully stroking your penis, the ONLY thing you will feel is the stimulation the GLANS, and you never get ANY stimulation on the “sweet spot” just under the glans — It’s covered in elastic.

Humiliation is hard to endure

  • #7 Make him eat his cum – A hard thing for some man on any time which is 10x challenging when he is drained.
  • #8 Push his buttons – Make him do those things you know he hates.

#9 Use a penis pump

Nothing sophisticated. Just plug him in immediately and go full force

penis pump

Tips for working with less sensitive cocks

I have worked over countless cocks of all shapes, lengths, thicknesses, erection levels, and sensitivities. I have had a few where POT did not give me the effect I was looking for until I altered my techniques early in the session.

Here are some tips for the hardcore sessions and less sensitive cocks where you usually have to work a bit more:

1. Immobile bondage (COMPLETELY).

My subjects are bound to where the only things they can move are their eyes, and just a touch of the intermittent cock throbs. I also use a sling attached around the base of his cock with the other end anchored to his thighs. This keeps it standing vertically and I do not have to use one hand to hold his cock. (Klixen has a video with a similar sling). Use fabric hair ties around his balls and around the base of his cock to help trap more blood. Immobile bondage makes the focus area much more sensitive as these are the only nerves sending signals to the brain.

2. Make use of audio and visual stimulation or denial.

I have used blindfolds to heighten the experience through visual deprivation, but also forced my subjects to watch their absolute favorite porn movies while I work on them. One I like is to record a narration track and put headphones on them. This is where I tell my victim their fate, make them answer questions, tell them my stories of POT, etc. This technique is incredibly effective for non-tactile stimulation and I have been told by many subjects that is deliciously cruel and they have had the best orgasm ever from it.

3. Use tools.

I sometimes can get impatient and want to go straight to the POT, but using tools slows me down and keeps me focused. It always leads to a much more intense release and an increased cock sensitivity, I like to start light once the sling is on with Macaw feathers, soft brushes, pantyhose over the cock with the very light use of sharp fingernails, I have been told that these lighter implements, combined with immobile bondage, audio or visual implementation, and the sling is pure agony for them.

4. Medicinal aids.

I sometimes work on an older gentleman who has a Viagra prescription. He tried to hide it from me, but once I found out, I refused to do a session unless I see him swallow it. Night and day difference. I have used Stay Hard cremes and sprays with varying success.

5. Alternate other forms of punishment with your cock torment.

Tickling is an obvious one because it is similar in response to POT in that it is sensory overload. But I have one subject that I use bastinado on his size 12 feet. This gives the penis a break and adds another element to the torment.

6. Do not overwork the head.

Dues to the number of nerve clusters in the head, it is easy to spend a lot of time there getting your reactions, but only going there occasionally makes it much more effective. But when you do go there, make it count. Palm rolling using both hands is my go-to when doing head work. (Klixen too)

7. Using the upstroke only technique.

This is what I discovered and turned my once ho-um jock sessions into screamapalooza. The down-stroke is a mechanical function as it helps move the semen up the vas deferens tubes from the testes into the urethra. The up-stroke sends a signal to the brain to maintain the erection and get ready to move the semen closer to the outside world. Without a down-stroke, there is no way to move the semen and soon it becomes incredibly uncomfortable. Most men cannot cum without the downstroke, but I have had a couple surprise me. Of course, they had to pay the ultimate penalty for blowing their wad early. Just alternate your hands sliding up and off. In about 5 minutes, you will start to hear your victim’s unhappiness.

I hope someone who has a less sensitive or tougher subject can use this information to inflict serious sexual agony on their consenting victim.

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