Crossdressing, Hot or Not?

Well, ladies? What do you think of those crazy transgenders that ride the line, either trying to pass as women or just going for an androgyny kind of look? Does it bother you if they…

What do you like most about sex with a sissy?

What do you like most about sex with a sissy? Please give details. Answers : I love how most (not all) tend to love sucking dick and most actually know how to do it well…

How do I get my master to become the master I need?

How does a submissive get their master to become the master they need? Answers : My two cents and only my opinion, based on four-plus years of owning a collared slave, evolving together, backing up,…

Can you do S&M without the sex ?

I’m interested in knowing if any of you out there are satisfied after a scene if there is no vanilla style sex involved? I’m keen to act out a scene like this but finding it…

How to attend to a disobedient sub?

Ok, as I’ve had this come up recently (and acted upon it) I wondered how others would react to the following, so I’m going to set the scene and wonder what You would do… There…

What is it that you Mistresses adore, fantasize about?

Can it be done? What is it that you Mistresses adore, fantasize about. What qualities do you wish your servants had more of? Impeccable presence, hygiene? Courteous, respectful mannerisms? What’s the best way to impress…

Out of town Visitors

Out of town Visitors

It was fourteen years ago when I first met Bob and Dee. My wife and I were on a trip to South Dakota to met her brother and his wife. We arrived the same day…

How do I choose my Domme Name?

I’ve got to choose a name to go by as a domme. I’m wanting some tips for a name. I’ve been brainstorming with friends and I am still not sure because nothing is ‘coming to…

Do male subs need to be weak, sissy, pathetic morsels?

Do male subs need to be weak, sissy, pathetic morsels? I want strong powerful men to control, men who can help me get the things I want in life, not just lick my shoes. How…

What can a domme do with a lazy sub?

Help me out here girls… I have a sub who I enjoy playing with and enjoy having around me, except he lives in my home with my husband and his girlfriend, and “we three” are…

What is your femdom philosophy?

Many people identify with ‘femdom’ – but it can mean very different things to different people. I suggest there are several distinct ‘femdom philosophies’, although some people may hold a hybrid of these very different…

Why does a women want to dominate a man?

I have found on information about who can dominate who (e.g. women can dominate a man), what female domination is, where women can dominate a man, when women can dominate a man, how women can…

Who has the duty of care?

I was recently talking with a friend of mine who is not only a sub but also a doctor and she passed on to me some disturbing information. There are subs out there who are…

Does punishment have to be painful?

When a sadistic Domme punishes her sub is it necessary to inflict pain? I think it can be just as effective to overstimulate the senses. You know – tease and denial. Or can punishment be…

The Study Cell

The Study Cell

When I was in college I remember rooms on the 3rd floor of the Library. Study cells, they were called. They were small, maybe 8×10, or so. Had a table and two to four chairs,…

A Chance Encounter – A Chance Of A Lifetime

A Chance Encounter – A Chance Of A Lifetime

He was nervous. He didn’t want to be nervous. He wanted to be calm, cool, and composed when he met Her, but the truth was he was nervous. He had a lot to lose if…

How do you feel about being friends with your submissive/slave?

Then circumstances arise in which I question the two being compatible. For instance, I want My friends to tell Me like it is. However, while I want My submissive to be able to be open,…

FemDoms, do these types of words turn you on?

Worthless worms, and other catchy words. FemDoms, do these types of words turn you on when subbies refer to themselves this way? Me, it doesn’t do a damn thing for me. Why would I want…

Chastity belt, would you wear one if your domme told you to?

So what do think of them? Would you wear one if your domme told you to? Because I wouldn’t. The bottom line I don’t cheat and I won’t lie. Making somebody wear a chastity belt…

Ladies, Do you enjoy administering discipline?

Hello everyone, in an attempt to get a worthwhile rant going, I’m curious…… Does anyone actually enjoy dishing out a corporal punishment???? I know I long for/need and love being handled in this manner….just curious…

Pain for Ma’am

Pain for Ma’am

“Come here, bitch,” ` The order is sharp and matter of fact. The girl switches off the water in the kitchen and immediately comes to her side. Although they are not usually so formal at…

What power does a professional dominatrix have?

What power does a professional dominatrix have or does she have any real power at all? one of the things that most appeals to me about the BDSM lifestyle is the exchange of power or…

Why would any woman want to be submissive?

I wonder sometimes why any woman would want to be submissive to a man. Because men are pretty weak creatures. All a woman has to do is take off her top and most men will…

Domination: Can it be taught or learned?

Is being dominant or submissive a part of our psychological make-up or is it something that can be taught or learned? can a domme be made or is it something she either has within her…

Is the lesbian female supremacist FemDomme an oxymoron?

Like most FemDommes, I really enjoy degrading men. I love putting them in their place. I like to see them tortured. I enjoy most when my dominant side is able to interact with people from…